The days are shorter, the sun sets before dinner, and the holiday season brings its own unique blend of joy and stress. If you’re feeling more anxious, irritable, or emotionally fragile right now, you might assume it’s just seasonal blues or holiday overwhelm. But for women in perimenopause or menopause, there’s often a deeper factor at play: your hormones.
At Longevità Medical, we understand that mental wellness isn’t separate from physical health, as it’s intimately connected to your hormonal balance. And during winter’s darker days, when seasonal factors compound hormonal shifts, that connection becomes even more apparent.
Why Winter Hits Differently During Menopause
You may have noticed that some months feel harder than others emotionally. Maybe you’re more prone to tears, quicker to frustration, or struggling with anxiety that seems to come out of nowhere. When this happens during winter, especially ones that are long and cold, it’s easy to blame the season.

Seasonal factors do play a part. Shorter days mean less natural light exposure, which affects your brain’s production of serotonin and melatonin. This can disrupt your sleep patterns, lower your mood, and increase feelings of depression or anxiety. Add in holiday pressures such as family dynamics, financial stress, packed schedules, and it’s no wonder many women feel overwhelmed.
But for women experiencing hormonal changes, winter amplifies something that’s already happening in your body: fluctuating or declining levels of estrogen and progesterone that profoundly influence your brain chemistry and emotional regulation.
The Hormones Your Brain Needs
Your brain is one of the most hormone-dependent organs in your body. Estrogen and progesterone aren’t just hormones used for reproductive purposes; they’re neurohormones that influence mood, cognition, stress response, and emotional stability.
When these hormones fluctuate wildly during perimenopause or drop significantly after menopause, your brain experiences real physiological changes. The mood swings, anxiety, irritability, and emotional volatility that many women experience are neurological responses to hormonal shifts.
Understanding how these hormones work in your brain helps explain why you might feel so different from your pre-menopausal self, especially during the winter season.
Progesterone: Your Brain’s Natural Calming Agent
Progesterone is often called “the calming hormone.” When progesterone enters your brain, it converts into a neurosteroid called allopregnanolone, which acts on the same receptors as anti-anxiety medications like Valium or Xanax, but it’s your body’s natural version.
Allopregnanolone has powerful calming effects on your nervous system. It:
Reduces anxiety and promotes relaxation by enhancing GABA activity in your brain. GABA is your primary calming neurotransmitter—think of it as your brain’s brake pedal that helps you feel peaceful and grounded.
Improves sleep quality by helping you fall asleep more easily and stay asleep through the night. Progesterone’s calming effects make it easier for your brain to transition into restorative sleep cycles.
Buffers stress response by modulating how your brain reacts to stressors. With adequate progesterone, your nervous system doesn’t overreact to everyday challenges.
Protects against mood swings by stabilizing emotional responses and reducing irritability.
During perimenopause, progesterone often declines before estrogen does. This creates a period where you might still be having periods but experiencing significant mood and anxiety symptoms because your progesterone levels are insufficient. After menopause, when both hormones have dropped significantly, the loss of progesterone’s calming influence can leave you feeling anxious, restless, and emotionally reactive.
During winter months, when seasonal factors are already challenging your mood and sleep, low progesterone can make everything feel more intense. The holiday stress that you might have handled easily in your 30s now feels overwhelming. The shorter days that once caused mild winter blues now trigger significant anxiety or depression.
Estrogen: The Mood Stabilizer Your Brain Relies On
While progesterone calms your nervous system, estrogen plays a different but equally important role in your mental wellness. Estrogen influences the production, release, and regulation of several key neurotransmitters that control your mood and emotional state.
Serotonin production: Estrogen increases the number of serotonin receptors in your brain and helps your body produce more serotonin, which is the neurotransmitter most associated with feelings of well-being and happiness. This is why declining estrogen can feel similar to depression.
Dopamine regulation: Estrogen influences dopamine pathways that affect motivation, pleasure, and your ability to experience joy. When estrogen drops, activities that once brought you happiness might feel flat or uninteresting.
Norepinephrine balance: This neurotransmitter affects alertness, energy, and stress response. Estrogen helps maintain optimal norepinephrine levels, supporting mental clarity and emotional resilience.
Brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF): Estrogen promotes BDNF production, which supports your brain’s ability to adapt, learn, and maintain cognitive flexibility. Higher BDNF levels are associated with better mood and resilience to stress.
When estrogen levels decline, your brain literally has less raw material to work with for maintaining emotional stability. The winter months, with their reduced sunlight and increased stress, compound this challenge by further impacting serotonin production and mood regulation.
The Critical Balance Between Estrogen and Progesterone
Here’s where understanding hormone balance becomes essential: it’s not just about having enough estrogen or enough progesterone. It’s also about the relationship between them.
Throughout your reproductive years, estrogen and progesterone rise and fall in a coordinated relationship. Estrogen builds during the first half of your cycle, creating energy and optimism. Progesterone rises in the second half, providing calming balance. Together, they create emotional equilibrium.
During perimenopause, this balance often goes haywire. You might have months where estrogen dominates without enough progesterone to counterbalance it, leading to anxiety, irritability, and feeling “wired but tired.” During other months, both hormones might be low, leaving you feeling depressed, unmotivated, and emotionally fragile. This imbalance affects your brain’s ability to regulate mood, manage stress, and maintain emotional stability.
Why Standard Approaches Miss the Hormonal Connection
Many women experiencing mood changes during menopause are offered antidepressants or anti-anxiety medications without anyone addressing their hormonal status. While these medications can be helpful for some women, they don’t address the underlying hormonal cause of mood symptoms.
If your anxiety and depression are rooted in hormonal imbalance, restoring that balance through bioidentical hormone replacement therapy can provide relief that targets the actual cause rather than just managing symptoms.
This doesn’t mean hormones are the only factor in mental health—stress management, therapy, adequate sleep, nutrition, exercise, and social connection all matter enormously. But for women whose mood changes coincide with hormonal shifts, addressing the hormonal piece can be transformative.
Supporting Your Mental Wellness This Winter
Understanding the hormonal connection to your mood empowers you to take targeted action. Here are strategies that support both your hormonal balance and your mental wellness during the darker months:
Optimize Your Hormone Balance
If you’re experiencing significant mood changes, anxiety, or depression alongside other menopausal symptoms, a comprehensive hormone evaluation can reveal whether hormonal imbalance is contributing to your mental wellness challenges.
At Longevità Medical, Julie assesses your complete hormonal picture—not just estrogen and progesterone levels, but how they relate to each other, your thyroid function, and other hormones that influence mood and energy. This comprehensive approach ensures we understand the full context of your symptoms.
Bioidentical hormone replacement therapy can restore the estrogen and progesterone your brain needs for optimal neurotransmitter function and emotional regulation. When dosed correctly and balanced appropriately, BHRT provides your brain with the hormonal support it’s been missing.
Maximize Light Exposure
Even though hormones play a significant role, don’t underestimate seasonal factors. Your brain needs light to produce serotonin and regulate circadian rhythms.

Get outside during daylight hours whenever possible, even on cloudy days. Natural light exposure, even indirect sunlight, provides significantly more light intensity than indoor lighting. Consider a light therapy box for morning use, especially if you live in northern latitudes or struggle to get outside during daylight hours.
Move Your Body
Exercise influences both hormonal balance and neurotransmitter production. Movement helps regulate cortisol (your stress hormone), supports healthy estrogen metabolism, and promotes endorphin release.
You don’t need intense workouts. Consistent movement like walking, yoga, or strength training provides significant mood and hormonal benefits.
Prioritize Sleep
Both estrogen and progesterone influence sleep quality, and poor sleep dramatically worsens mood and stress resilience. If hormonal imbalance is disrupting your sleep, whether through night sweats, insomnia, or restless sleep, addressing the hormonal piece becomes even more critical.
Create a consistent sleep schedule, limit screen time before bed, keep your bedroom cool and dark, and consider how hormone optimization might improve your sleep quality.
Manage Holiday Stress Mindfully
The holidays bring unique pressures, and hormonal imbalance can reduce your stress tolerance significantly. Give yourself permission to:
- set boundaries around commitments and family obligations
- say no to events or activities that drain rather than energize you
- simplify traditions if they’ve become sources of stress rather than joy
- ask for help instead of trying to manage everything alone
Remember: if your stress tolerance feels lower than usual, it might be a hormonal issue that deserves attention.
Support Your Neurotransmitter Production
Certain nutrients support the production of mood-regulating neurotransmitters:
Omega-3 fatty acids (from fish or high-quality supplements) support brain health and mood regulation. B vitamins (especially B6, B12, and folate) are essential cofactors in neurotransmitter synthesis. Magnesium supports GABA production and helps regulate stress response.
Vitamin D influences serotonin production and mood stability.
A nutrient-dense diet rich in whole foods provides many of these nutrients, though supplementation may be beneficial depending on your individual needs.
The Longevità Medical Approach to Hormonal Mental Wellness
At Longevità Medical, we recognize that your mental wellness and hormonal health are inseparable. When you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, mood swings, or emotional instability during perimenopause or menopause, we don’t just address isolated symptoms, instead we look at the complete picture.
Julie conducts comprehensive hormone testing to understand your estrogen and progesterone levels, how they relate to each other, and how they’re influencing your brain chemistry and emotional regulation. This detailed assessment reveals whether hormonal imbalance is contributing to your mental wellness challenges.
If BHRT is appropriate for you, we create a personalized protocol that restores not just optimal hormone levels, but optimal hormone balance. This means ensuring you have adequate progesterone for its calming effects, sufficient estrogen for neurotransmitter support, and the right ratio between them for emotional stability.
Throughout treatment, we monitor your response carefully. Not only are your hormone levels tracked, but also how you feel, how you’re sleeping, how you’re managing stress, and how your mood evolves. This allows us to fine-tune your protocol for optimal mental and emotional well-being.
Ready to Support Your Mental Wellness?
Your mental wellness, your emotional stability, and your ability to feel like yourself matter profoundly. When hormonal imbalance is undermining your mental health, restoring that balance can be life-changing. Women often describe feeling like “themselves again” once their hormones are optimized, regaining the emotional resilience, stress tolerance, and baseline happiness they remember from earlier in life.
If mood changes, anxiety, or depression are affecting your quality of life, especially if they’ve worsened during perimenopause or menopause, it’s time to explore whether hormonal imbalance is playing a role. Contact us to schedule a comprehensive hormone optimization consultation, where Julie will assess your complete hormonal picture, discuss how hormone balance affects mental wellness, and help you understand whether BHRT might support your emotional health during this challenging season and beyond.
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